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Working with Ideas and Reality

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Working with Ideas and RealityOften we mistake ideas as reality. As Michael McAlister reminds us, “The map is not the territory”. Through a practice such as meditation, when our mind becomes still, ideas become visible. We see outside of them, and their grip loosens. It’s at this place that we gain access to reality. There we realise our ideas are just that. Ideas. They are not facts or certainty, just one possible path. When we let go of ideas and concepts, we live in the moment and the world opens.

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Projecting, Reacting, Reflecting, Oh My!

Projecting, Reacting, Reflecting, Oh My!Most of life is spent transacting or exchanging. We trade our time and skills for money. We trade that money for goods and services. This style of exchange is also deep in our Ego and interactions with people. When communicating, we often engage in pushing or pulling, missing the real.

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Living with Time to Enjoy Life

Flower, Present MomentIn each moment we have the potential to be present, or to miss it. If we miss the moment, we never get it back, and when it happened we were essentially dead. Along the journey of evolution, we seemed to picked up the habit of not living in the moment, spending time either in the past, as memories, or in the future, as planning. Continue reading ‘Living with Time to Enjoy Life’

Easing Suffering, Increasing Happiness

SurfingWhen we enter into our Emotions, we grow and reinforce them. By this, we bind our happiness to fleeting moments, and in the case of negative emotions, we self-inflict pain. Continue reading ‘Easing Suffering, Increasing Happiness’


Opening Up

DaisyWhen we Communicate and Connect with others, a miraculous thing happen. We begin to open up, and as a result we feel lighter and happier. By opening up, we feel more connected and develop a greater appreciate with the universe. We begin to see beauty, diversity, and expansiveness everywhere, in ‘things’ as they are, meeting ‘them’ and accepting ‘them’, always growing and expanding.

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Extinguishing Anger’s Fire

ExtinguishedIf you get Angry often, you develop a habit of Anger. Negative emotions and habits, are like thieves of happiness; they should be caught and stopped as quickly as possible.

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What’s your Intention?

PositiveYour intention is your direction. How do you have your intention set? Is it looking and promoting positive qualities, or is it pointing out negative qualities?

With one everything and everyone the intentions into contact with open and grow. With the the other, things and people shut down. The same energy is used in either way, with results making life easier or harder. Continue reading ‘What’s your Intention?’


Understanding and Love

Understanding and Love are not two separate things, but just one. To develop understanding, you have to practice looking at all living beings with the eyes of compassion. When you understand, you cannot help but love. And when you love, you naturally act in a way that can relieve the suffering of people.
Thich Nhat Hanh, A beautiful reminder found at the entry to the meditation hall.